Adults Present Struggles Can Become Children’s Future Struggles

In  Nature Kids Naturally Live the Peace of Being 

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As adults most of us are aware of the life serving worth and inner joy gifted to us by observing regular moments of silence and stillness; yet still today my personal observations show me that the majority of parents, grandparents and child carers alike are overlooking undeniable fact in the upbringing of children.

I still see it being far more common more for parents and other carers by way of reward, and the accompanied suggestion of pleasure predominantly taking children to busy noisy place rather than into the still wonder of nature and the self.

How many adults today because of the mind made conditioned beliefs of joy  and pleasures  outer reality struggle to find their God Gifted Inner Peace, – I believe far too many!

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If I had been given 10 cents every  an adult asked me how to still there, mind, or to meditate, or to find joy in  nature, or feel at peace in the midst of our outwardly troubled world I would have a very substantial bank account by now.

Our present struggles become our children’s future struggles – It’s up to us to help ease that burden not created and even larger one.

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Peace is a personal pathway.  No-one can create a pathway of personal peace for any other but everyone can help make another aware of the presence of inner presence of peace which resides at the centered core of every living being – especially our children included.

Have you ever noticed a still baby silently gazing at the wonder of life? Have you ever noticed its peaceful cooing sounds that accompany these special moments together with the added light of amazement that shines from its eyes? I believe that the light and sound in these moments is born from what a baby feels within – not from that which it observes outside of itself.

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We adults one and all are all children’s role models; some of us more directly that others – I am simply asking in these words, what lifestyle are we as role models exemplifying and teaching our children our children.

Maybe, just maybe the nest time any of us consider a day at the movies devoid of sunlight, or crowned indoor café under fluorescent lighting, or a noisy fun park as being the most beneficial reward our children, maybe we should think again!

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Those who meet silence converse with the voice of eternity.
Those who are still feel life purposefully move them.
Those who know nature believe in life’s natural magic.

Kerry Guy

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Being in The Right Place at The Right Time to Lend a Helping Hand

Sometimes being able to lend a helping hand is simply a matter of being in the right place at the right time.

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Always encourage kids to do their best.

This is exactly what happened to my friend I a few days ago. After sharing a chat and catching up on each other’s latest news we headed out to our local shops. At this point I will mention that we live in Cairo, Egypt where life has been a little unsettled of late and street walks have been avoided for obvious reasons. However in our local area life at this time had become quite calm, and in fact it except for being a little less crowded on the streets  was virtually as we’d previously known it!

As we made our way out onto the streets we noticed a little boy standing alone looking somewhat tentative at the entrance of a pathway we were about to enter. Other children were playing nearby but he stood alone. It appeared he had somewhere to go, but wasn’t! Maybe he was waiting for someone to join him, I thought? But no, that was not the case. As I walked directly next to him he immediately began walking in step with me; and he walked so close to me that we were almost touching!

Right away  both my friend and I realized that the little boy who was about eight or nine years old was afraid, and just wanted someone to walk beside him to make him feel safe. Initially he didn’t say a word as we walked, so I smiled at him and asked him how he was, and he said fine. I wanted him to know that it was quite OK that he was with us.

It wasn’t long before we turned a corner – one obviously he didn’t need to turn to get to where he was going. He stopped, and again was afraid, so he hastily changed direction and walked toward my friend and me.  My friend whose Arabic is much better than mine began a conversation with the young boy. We both knew he was afraid to walk alone, but was even more afraid to ask us to walk him where he was going.  It took very little effort on my friend’s part to convince the young boy to agree to the suggestion that we walk with him to where he needed to be before we continued on with our errands.

His little face lit up with a smile as bright as the sun as soon as this plan was agreed upon. As we turned to make our way in the direction he wished to go he eagerly held my friend, Rahsa’s hand until he reached his a destination. Greatly relieved that he had arrived safely he eagerly ran up the stairs of the building he was about to enter.

Being able to help this little boy, whose name we didn’t ask, was the hi-light of our day – we had so clearly been in exactly the right place at the right time on that day.

Of course we are all always exactly in the right place at the right time, but it is not always as clearly evident as it was on this helping hand day!

In life kids achieve so much simply because they believe they can.

In life kids achieve so much simply because they believe they can.

In closing I would like to add in regard to the young boy’s fear that he could only have been so afraid because of fear based warnings echoed to him from an adult; yet sadly no adult was with him to safely walk him to his nearby destination. I agree it is wise to caution a child to take care at all times, but never to feed them so much fear that it paralyzes them into stationary stillness. It is our jobs as adults to guide and protect children. If we are aware of danger is lurking on our streets – which it wasn’t that day – we have two choices to offer children; one is not to allow them to go outdoors until the danger has passed, and the other is to walk beside them, or assign another trusted adult to do so, as their protector in order to keep them safe!

I believe that at no time should any adult ever fill a child’s mind to overflowing with fear, of any kind, to the extent that it virtually paralyzes them and then send them out alone, without any rational guidance to deal with their newly implanted fear! Heaven knows the world has an abundance of adults afraid to face their own fear – why on earth would any adult want to pass that type of restricted lifestyle onto a child!

It truly is time to stop over-feeding crippling adult fears to young fearless warrior children who by their very nature trust that they have the ability to both capably survive and achieve whatever their heart desires in life.

The greatest thing any of us have to fear in life is fear itself, for once we allow fear take hold of us, we, like the little boy on the street become its paralyzed prisoner and are incapable of moving forward toward either any desired life destination or our God choreographed life purpose destination.

Kerry Guy

Encourage Kids to Dream

As a child I was never encouraged to dream. No adult ever spoke to me about their dreams or said to me, ‘If you really wish hard and believe in yourself then all of your life dreams can come true.’

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Because I wasn’t encouraged to dream; I didn’t. I grew up having no big secret hopes or dreams except for wanting to get married and live a happy family farm life. My auntie and uncle had a farm and I just loved farm life so living like them I envisaged to be the ultimate way for me to live, but never did I dream beyond that – I had no idea of the infinite life possibility that dreams offered!

My dream as I dreamed it was never realised as I had hoped. I was married – more than once, and I have two daughters and I had a farm. But as I look back I have to wonder if my family/farm dream was really a dream or was it something I settled to dream?

Life in its Divinely designed flow has taken me on a life journey I honestly would never have had the courage to dream for myself! Life itself over time has taught me not only to dream, but also to dream BIG!!!!!

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Now I dare to fearlessly dream way beyond expectation based on my inner feelings – my gut intuition, and as I dream I trust with my whole heart that my intuited feelings are given to me directly from God, for in all honesty they must come from God because He/She/It is the ultimate omnipresence unseen power force and source of life.

Now that I dream without limit in accordance with my feelings rather than within limited mind parameters of possibility miracles simply become a recognised every day aspects of my life. It’s only ever when I let mind sourced doubt creep into my being that I block miracles from manifesting into my day.

I have no regrets that I wasn’t taught to dream as I child as I’ve had a truly incredible journey of life adventure discovering the power of a dream. I’ve had extreme high and lows and midway between both extremes I’ve realised life perfection purpose.

However, I truly believe that myself and many others like me are the pioneers of the power of dream and that it is our soul responsibility to share this magical miraculous power with kids of today. The more we share the Power of  Positive Dreaming with today’s youth the sooner we can bring Love and Light back into its perfect heavenly balance in life on earth.

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God created a Garden of Eden on earth to serve humanity eternally – Human’s minds however have almost choked that heavenly garden with noxious polluted fear based power hungry negative thoughts.

It’s time for a new love based collective dream – its time to dream Heaven or as we better know it the Garden of Eden back into living life reality.

Mind fear in many areas of life has almost managed to create loveless areas desert on earth but love heals, nourishes and rebuilds everything that fear in its ignorance destroys. It’s time to trust the power of love and to encourage kids to live the Power of Love and to Dream Big Positive Life Healing Dreams.

We can heal the world and I believe that it is our adult responsibility to both teach this truth to the children of today and to encourage them to live it fearlessly.

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~ The Healing Centre We all Seek In life Resides Within the Self~

Kerry Guy

#All photos of my home town where I initially dared not dream big but now every time I visit this  magnificent place I am reminded of the power of dreaming….. KG

Life is a Movie

Life is a Movie – We are each the Script Writers, Directors, Producers and Role Players of the Life Movie we Live.

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There are no wrongs or rights in life. Life equals an ongoing movie in which we are all script writers, producers, directors, photographers and role players. Our thoughts are constantly writing and re-writing the script of the movie of life.

Because we observe numerous life situations daily and are involved in many life situations daily we are continually prompted to consider new ways to rewrite or continue write the script of life as we see it – that is of course unless we have a closed mind about life. A closed mind equals a writer’s block causing our movie of life to go not further than the point at which it’s arrived.

It’s great to be in the movie of life and there are times when it’s even greater to be an observer of the movie of life as we live it. Life after all is about learning and learning requires being openly objective rather than being judgmental or critical. Sometimes we must mentally remove ourselves from a situation to become the observer of our physical self in a situation to be aware of the lesson it has to offer us. It’s common knowledge that we all at times more easily give advice to others than the self, so if we see ourselves and another rather than the self often we find. These are the times we fall into the roles of movie director and producer.

Lately I have been invited into several situations where people have been totally dependent on others in varying ways which led me to write the following flow of thoughts.

I’m not saying that my thoughts are right or wrong; I simply base them upon my personal life experience.

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INNER KNOWING IS A ROAD MAP FOR GROWING

As babies we strive to stand alone.

As babies we trust our inner knowing which tells us that we are meant to stand alone.

As adults we sometimes lose the trust in ourselves alone that we had as children.

In reality we never stand alone, but we can never discover this truth if we continually seek the support of others.

God never gives us any more than we can handle at any given time and more important to remember than that, is that God is ever in us and at our side as we handle all life puts before us.

There is nowhere that God isn’t, which of course means that God Power is our life gifted ever Now Power.

Where we are in the moment attributes to what we are in the moment, and every moment we are in is a moment that God is also in with us and within us.

There is nowhere or no time that God isn’t.

God Power is Solid Rock Power and when we trust our Solid Rock Power we strive to stand alone knowing full well that life ‘rocks’ and that all is good and will continually be good because all is God.

And as we stand alone in the faith that we can stand alone we automatically become aware that because All is God, that All is One which in effect means that we are not only connected to and supported by more than a few close relatives others but that we are in fact in some way connected to and supported by every human other.

Babies know as they grow that to let go is the only way to progress in life’s flow. If as babies we didn’t let go of support as we learned to stand we could never on our own two feet walk into life alone.

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It’s only by standing and walking alone that we discover that we are not alone.

Babies know that love is more, so much more than a physical connection to another or close-up view of another.

Babies sense that life is a love fuelled and supported flow.

Babies are fearless because they are love-filled and love–fuelled.

Babies instinctively trust that they will naturally and purposefully grow into life as they are meant to.

Adults often in mind fed fear fall into doubt about their personal ability to alone ‘know and grow’. In doing so adults their connection with their personal God gifted power and thus in lack of self-confidence and low self-esteem fall out of their own life purpose flow.

Babies ooze with self-esteem and self-confidence and naturally accept the moment and live in the moment.

Adults on the other hand at times in forgotten self- awareness unnaturally try to create a moment that they can accept.

Whatever life brings our way is never by accident or without life purpose, and whatever life brings directly our way, whether it is good or what seems to be bad we must remember that we have through our very own thoughts and actions written the script for its appearance in our lives.  However the great thing about the movie of life is that we one and all, and all as one have the God Given Ability to re-write the script of our personal role within the movie of life and to help jointly re-write humanity’s collective role as one in the movie of life.

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Yes, One by One we are each and all that powerful – We are life creations constantly creating.

Kerry Guy ❤

Every Day I Speak to God & Every Day God Speaks to Me

When I Speak to God, God Listens -When God Speaks to me I Listen!

For as long as I can remember I have spoken to God knowing He was my unseen ultimate friend ever at my side.

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God Speaks in Countless Ways

I grew up as an only child spending many hours alone which was the perfect way for me to discover that I was never alone even though to the world around me it appeared as though I was! I spent as much time as possible outdoors in nature as soon as my infant legs would carry me out of the house.  Before I was five years old my parents owned a home that backed onto a river and my mother was an avid gardener so I had a wonderful setting in my most formative years to connect with life. This is when I began talking to God. Of course back then as a highly inquisitive toddler was unaware who I was talking to and simply spoke and played with God as children do simply assuming that He was my imaginary friend because that’s who adults told me I was speaking to any time I mentioned Him.

Adults who would see me happily playing and talking to someone in my small world in the joys of nature far removed from their reality generally asked me who I was talking to, and I would answer that I didn’t know, wondering why it was was so important to know who my friend was, as my friend had never asked me who I was! My friend loved and accepted me without needing to know anything more about me other than the fact that I was there to talk to and to play with. Naturally my behavior brought about either direct  or indirect  comments from adults about the foolishness of my imaginary world and my ‘imaginary friend’. Yet this friend, who has ‘chattily  remained with me throughout my life was at the time, and still is very real to me!

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Children taste and trust life in a differnt way to most adults.

I paid no mind to these ‘imaginary’ opinions of adults as in my heart I knew my friend was a very real friend whom I trusted completely. My trust in my friend grew as I grew, and whenever I questioned – as kids do – the wisdom of my parents of in fact any adult who tired to tell me how life was to be lived I conferred with ‘My Friend’ about these opinions and always tended to trust his opinion above the opinions of adults around me, which over time has presented me with quite a few life challenges. Sometimes however my friend’s opinion would match the opinion of the adults I questioned which instantly simplified my life!

It was many years later before I realized that my ever present friend was God, but when I did that soul awakening knowledge centered me in a depth of peace about life and my life choices that I can find impossible to describe effectively in human words.

Feelings say much more that words ever can!

Every day I speak to God, and God has been instrumental in all my major life decisions which have often been ridiculed by others around me; but what has been frequently been classified as the ‘rebel’ in me always – but always placed more credence in God’s opinion than that of well meaning bystanders – especially when their opinions have not been sought! When God and I chat with me seeking a life choice decision I trust that when I center in peace with my thoughts that this is God’s way of smiling at me and saying ‘Yes -that’s the choice to make!’

Some of my peace guided choices have invariably led to challenge but every life presented challenge I have encountered instigates a new conversation with My Friend and He always explains that I must trust the purpose of the challenge and promises that it will lead me to exactly the right outcome in my life which of course it always does.

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As I Center in Peace I Trust I that have God's approval regarding My Life Choice.

These days most morning on waking the first thought that pops into my head is, ‘Good morning God welcome to may day!’ I usually follow this thought with either of two questions. Question one is – ‘ God how can I serve you in life today?’  Then I trust that I will be led lead me into a day of service to life. My second question is – ‘God what message do you have for me today?’ Both questions are always answered in my every day.

This morning I asked God what message He had for me and His reply was immediate and strong. When I receive a reply as provocative as I did this morning I know that I have to ask a following question which is, ‘Do I have to share this with others?’ I only ask God this unnecessary question when I am hoping for a ‘No’ answer because they way God speaks is very clear and I am always aware if I’m to share His morning message with others or not even when prefer not to – like this morning!

Generally I convey God’s message in a subliminal poetic way or indirectly in a quote but there are occasions when He asks that I share his His messages more directly. Today is one of those days and I couldn’t peacefully get on with my day until I shared His message.

Today God posed a question to me that I myself often ask, and have in the past asked others who have been desperate to have a child of their own! God’s question was a thought that hadn’t crossed my mind for quite some time as I know its not my right to try to steer anothers thoughts in life in any way as we all have the right to think and live as we choose. Nonetheless this morning I  immediately knew that God wanted me to shed light on this issue. God Himself of course knew the answer but He simply wanted people to question themselves regarding this often over-looked issue.

God asked, ‘Why do so many still  feel the desperate need to create children of their own when there are already so many created loving children in the world in desperate need to love and to be of loved?’ –  God continued that so many valuable life serving aspects of life are today being wasted by so many in search of new and better ways to live. Today, He added is a day to remember Love and to Appreciate that all is Here and Now. Sadly those who choose to continue waste love will one day feel that all love is lost in their lives. Remember that love is never lost – Love is merely forgotten by some, but Love’s presence is eternal and must be believed to be lived and experienced.’

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Many abandoned babies are found dead.

After God  finished speaking I could feel Him smiling at me as He was wondering just how I would deal with what he said, and how I would convey his message to others. Well I tried to push His message aside as He knew I would, as there will be those who would prefer not to hear this message and will probably voice objection at my right to deliver it. But My Friend has never in my life let me down and so when He asked me to be His Voice I could not peacefully get on with my day until I shared His provocative message.

God asks so little of me and gives so much. He is an amazing friend.  He has shown me that Love simply IS and that Love is not bound by, or limited to blood, culture, race, creed or even to humans. Love freely given from the heart is always returned in greater immeasurable ways.

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Love is the Essence of Life

Love is the core of each human being, but unfortunately some humans aren’t being Love simply because they have forgotten that love is what they are and that love resides within them as well as all around them.

My Friend and I wish you all a Love Filled Life
Kerry Guy